The Place- The Jerusalem Centre for Emotional Wellbeing is proud
to invite the Women of the Community
Inter-Personal Communication
Skills Series
EXPRESSING YOURSELF
FACILITATED
BY RABBI SHLOMO KORY
TUESDAY
FEBRUARY 19TH, 2019 20:30
In this seminar we will explore the different ways you
can express yourself . There are 5 patterns of expression that were
codified by family therapist Virginia Satir. All of our communication uses one or a blend of
these patterns. Here are 7 possibilities of how you could speak to neighbors who
keep making noise late at night after building residents have asked them not to.
It is important to keep in mind that there is no
"correct" approach. Theoretically, any of these
could be correct; it depends on the people involved and on the
situation.
(Blamer)--- "Stop making noise late at night!" :
(Placator)---"I am really sorry to bother you again but I
was just wondering if it might be possible to try to make less noise late at night..."
(Computer)---"There is a rule in the building not to make
noise after 11:30..."
(Distractor)---"What was that beautiful music you were
playing at 12:00 last night?! ... "
(Leveller)---"I need to ask you to please not make noise
late at night..."
Here are are two examples of
mixing and blending the 5 patterns.
--- "I am really sorry to
bother you with this again but I need to ask you not to make noise late
at night because it disturbs us. Last night was a bit less disturbing because
we enjoyed the soft classical music that you were playing, but in general
it does interfere with our sleeping so we would really appreciate it if you
didn't make noise after 11:30. Thanks so much..."
--- "Unfortunately once
again there is a need to tell you that the noise coming from your apartment
late at night is quite disturbing. I would like to remind you that there
is a rule in the building not to make noise after 11:30 at
night. In light of this, we would appreciate it if you would please make
more of an effort to refrain from making any loud noise after 11:30. Thank
you,"
The goal of the seminar is to
become aware of the various options we have to express ourselves and how to use
them for improved, more effective communication.
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